After listening to my recent interview on the Figuring it Out podcast on how to write dating profile...

Meeting women online is so much easier these days thanks to all the apps. But the problem is...

Met on Match.com in 2013. Got married in 2016...Had their first kiddo in 2017! Their Story Brad, 26...

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Met on Match.com in 2010, Married in 2014 Their Story Billy, 28 Assistant of Operations in Scranton, PA...

Hey Em, You said there are two things that make a good first message: noticing what I have...

When a girl replies to a message, it’s a fucking victory.  You spend so much time and energy...

First, know that you are not alone.  Online dating only masquerades as the simpler way to date –...

Here’s how to get her to meet you if she’s always “busy”…and how to know when to move...

You asked her to meet in person...she said yes.  Sweet success! First, congratulate yourself.  You fought the good...

All the marks of a worthy man: - Crafting a great first message - Writing an awesome online dating profile...

You may think online dating is as simple as posting a decent profile picture, writing an accurate self-summary,...

Your written profile is gold mine of opportunity.  A lot of guys overlook it.  Here's why you shouldn't, plus 25...

A first date filled with awkward silences.  She takes a drink.  You take a drink.  She glances at...

Hi Em, Most of my messages have the attributes you discussed in your articles on messaging. So my question...

Hi Em, How do you "cold call"?  That is to say, send a message with basically NOTHING to...

Ahhh, Tinder.  Despite its reputation as an app for hooking up, it’s now also used by women who...

Hey Em, How long do I have to message a girl before asking her to meet me in...

Tinder is like the manic pixie dream girl of online dating -- frenetic, free, and you can't believe it's...

Some days, online dating feels like a terrible page of Where’s Waldo?  I see so many guys’ profiles, but...

Preparing for a first date can be incredibly stressful for most guys. If you feel that way you're...

John, thanks for sharing! One thing that would make your message better would be asking the type of...

Hey Andrew!  You're definitely right about one thing:  You’ll win or lose a woman’s attention with your profile...

If you’ve read any of my articles or eBooks, you’ll know by now there are 2 things I...

Thanks for your question, Derek! Yep, that is a frustrating experience and we’ve all been there! If her...

In sales terms, your well-crafted first message to a woman is the cold call. When she visits your...

Part of learning how to write a good online dating profile is learning what not to write. This...

Tom, you’re in good company: tons of guys have asked me about the best kind of username to...